The problem with trying to increase online visibility by “posting more”
We’ve all heard the advice that sounds like it came from someone who’s never had a calendar, a nervous system, or, ya know, a LIFE 😅 You’re supposed to post three to five times a day, be on Instagram and LinkedIn and Threads and TikTok, and somehow you’ll magically become one of Those People Who Are Crushing It™
The problem is that this version of “time to increase online visibility!” usually turns into doing a lot of marketing you can’t actually maintain, all while wondering why it’s not turning into anything that feels like forward movement in your business
Except we’re not trying to create more content; we’re trying to create sustainable visibility—aka marketing that doesn’t burn you out, and that can keep working even when you’re not!
Posting more doesn’t automatically give you more visibility
This part is annoying, because it would be soooo convenient if more effort always equaled more results 🙃 But posting more and more doesn’t guarantee more visibility—it can actually do the opposite, because sometimes it gets your posts buried, and trying to crank out more content can turn into generic posts that make you blend in with everyone else
That’s how you end up in that weird place where your marketing looks busy… and yet your business doesn’t feel like it’s going anywhere
And when visibility starts to feel like taking action without creating any traction, your brain does what brains do: it tries to solve it by adding more action. More platforms, more posts, more “maybe if I just…” energy, which is a fast track to resentment when you’re working harder without getting clearer 😬
Consistency is a delivery mechanism, not a plan
Consistency is helpful and all, but it’s not a strategy. It’s more like the vehicle you’re using to deliver the message—and a vehicle without a destination is just you driving around in circles, which is why being consistent doesn’t guarantee success 🚗
More content can cover up what’s actually going wrong underneath, because it creates a whole lot of output without creating a clear path forward
If you’ve been there, you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not the only one who’s fallen into that trap. I’ve seen coaches posting daily across four different platforms with no clear idea where their leads are coming from, or whether any of those platforms are creating leads in the first place
I’ve seen course creators do a huge visibility sprint… and then disappear while they recover, which means their offer isn’t being marketed anymore, which means the sales don’t come either 🫠 It may look like successfully running a big race, but it feels like running on a treadmill going nowhere
Why “more visibility” can still feel like shouting into the void
If you’ve ever done a podcast interview or a virtual summit presentation and felt sure it was going to be the one that brought in all the leads…
…and then you got 0, 10, maybe 25 leads 😬
That moment can feel like such a letdown, because it doesn’t just feel like “not many leads.” It feels like nobody saw you, nobody listened, and you start wondering why you put in all that time to prep, record, and promote it—for what, exactly??
And then your brain starts trying to make meaning out of it, which is usually where the “I guess this doesn’t work for me” story sneaks in
But sometimes you do get leads, and yet it still feels bad! People sign up for your freebie, download it, and then immediately unsubscribe. 😡 If that’s happened to you too, it’s usually just a signal that something important was missing
Either folks didn’t see the long-term value, the next step didn’t match what they came for, or the path forward wasn’t clear enough for them to want to stick around, which is a very different problem than “I need to promote more”
This is also why trying everything at once makes visibility feel exhausting. When you can’t tell what’s working and what’s not, you default to doing more—more platforms, more posts, more pitches—because some leads and sales are coming in, but you can’t clearly point to what actually caused them
So you feel like you have to double down on all of it, because who knows what’s working! 😜
I’ve seen service providers do a couple of summits and some guest podcasts, get excited about the subscribers coming in… and then watch most of them disappear within a week. I’ve seen business owners spend hours polishing podcast pitches and get no responses (or get booked, do the interviews, and still not be able to point to a single lead or sale that clearly came from those appearances)
That’s usually the moment people decide podcast guesting doesn’t work, but the real issue usually isn’t the interview itself—it’s what happens after people discover you
Visibility without a path forward isn’t going to get you results. A speaking appearance can absolutely get you attention, whether it’s a podcast interview, a summit, or showing up inside someone else’s membership or group program, but attention isn’t the same thing as a system
Borrowing trust from a host only works when you’re showing up in the right places with a message that fits the people in that room. That’s why a profitable speaking topic matters so much—not as a sales pitch, but as a conversation that naturally points people toward a paid offer (without shoving it down their throats)
And honestly, having fewer aligned speaking opportunities will beat a long list of “sounds good on paper” appearances every single time! When visibility is done well, it creates continuity, helps people know what to do next, and makes everything make sense together without weird jarring moments where someone goes, “Wait…how did we get here?” 😅
That’s also why I don’t treat podcast guesting as the visibility strategy itself; it’s the amplifier for your Visibility Ecosystem™
You don’t need to be everywhere—you just need to look like you’re everywhere
One of the reasons people get stuck in the “post more” trap is because they’re afraid that if they’re not constantly visible, people will forget they exist
Which… I mean, fair 😅 That’s a legit concern, especially if you’ve ever taken a break and then had that immediate “Welp, guess my business is over now” feeling when your leads pipeline goes quiet
But you do not need to be everywhere!
You just need to look like you’re everywhere—and yes, I know that sounds a little ridiculous at first, like we’re about to build you a trench coat and stack your marketing inside of it like three raccoons pretending to be a human 😂
But what I really mean is that your visibility doesn’t have to depend on you constantly creating brand new content to stay in front of people
That’s the whole idea of the Everywhere Effect™
The Everywhere Effect: visibility that doesn’t require constant content creation!
The Everywhere Effect is how you can show up on Instagram and LinkedIn and Threads and wherever else you want to be seen…without needing to create new content all the time 🤯
It’s how you can look like you’re everywhere without burning out
And it also means that even if you take a break from visibility, you can pull out evergreen marketing assets that were created through guest podcasting, virtual summits, or wherever else you’re speaking, and keep building your authority and generating leads and sales while you’re kicking it on the beach 🏖️
Now to be clear: I’m not saying you never have to show up again and you can just “set it and forget it”
Repeated touch points with people still matter, because folks need to see and hear you multiple times before they trust you and feel ready to work with you
But podcast guesting can create what I like to call “density”—it’s like a cluster of social proof you can put out in the world where other people are essentially saying, “Hey, listen to this person; they know what they’re talking about” (even if you don’t always feel like an expert yet)
And that cluster is what makes posting and marketing regularly feel lighter, because you’re not trying to build trust from scratch every single time you open an app
A quick side note about the kinds of rooms that actually work
If you’re going to borrow trust from someone else’s platform, you don’t want to borrow it from… well, randos 🫣
Being in aligned rooms is kinda the whole point, whether it’s a podcast, a summit, or showing up inside someone’s membership or group program!
And honestly, I love going into memberships and group programs and masterminds, because you can answer people’s questions live, build authority in a more human way, and collect the kinds of questions you can use later in your own content as part of your Everywhere Effect
If you’re doing a virtual summit and you have the option to offer a live Q&A, say yes if you can—those are such good touch points, and they help you stand out in a way that “here’s my pre-recorded presentation” often can’t
The Google Analytics moment that made this click for me 🙃
At one point a few years ago, I was invited to speak about Google Analytics on a virtual summit
I used to teach Google Analytics for creative entrepreneurs, so technically, yeah, sure, I could do totally it
Buuuut I had retired that course a while before that (like, it had probably been a year or two since I’d last taught about it) and by the time I did that presentation, I had moved into working with speakers for a while
So when I said yes to that summit, I like to think the presentation itself was good… but there really wasn’t anywhere for people to go afterward 🤦♀️
I didn’t get results, and I was mostly doing it as a favor for a friend because I wanted to say yes to them
But that meant I put time and work into something that wasn’t beneficial for me, and it wasn’t even serving the audience well, because I was giving them tools… and then not giving them a next step to actually do something with what they’d learned 🙈
If I’d still had that Google Analytics course, it might’ve been a different story, because I would’ve had places for them to go and ways for them to learn how to take what they’d just learned and do more with it
These days, though, if someone comes to me and asks me to speak about visibility marketing, guest podcasting, a sleaze-free sales framework, something like that, it’s an easy yes!
And it’s mainly just because I have next steps that actually connect to what I’m teaching, which changes everything 😉
If you’re saying yes to opportunities that don’t connect back to a real next step for the people you’re speaking to, that alone can explain why your visibility strategy feels like it’s not working
Because again, visibility without a path forward isn’t going to get you results 🤷♀️
Evergreen visibility is how your speaking keeps working after you hit record
This is the part I want you to really soak in: speaking can keep working after you hit record… and after you turn off the mic
A lot of people treat visibility like a one-time event. A virtual summit is a great example because it literally is a one-time event, but that doesn’t mean the content you created has to be!
Same thing with podcast episodes: an episode goes public, you post once like “Hey, I was on this podcast, yay!” and then you forget about it
But evergreen visibility creates opportunities for those speaking appearances to keep circulating and keep connecting you with new people who want to hear from you, learn from you, collaborate with you, and ideally buy from you too 🙌
That’s how you build a Visibility Ecosystem that keeps your business going on evergreen, even when you’re not necessarily “on” all the time
And no, evergreen does not mean you do nothing forever! It means the time and effort you put into speaking opportunities doesn’t end up sitting on a shelf collecting dust
The 3 ingredients that help you increase online visibility in a way that actually sticks
If you want your visibility to compound instead of evaporate, there are a few pieces that have to be in place
Not because you’re doing it “wrong” without them, but because without them, the system can’t do its job
1 | A clear message people can repeat
You want a core message that people can easily remember, repeat, and associate with you. It’s what you carry throughout your speaking opportunities, even if you change up the angle depending on the room
If every appearance is a totally different version of you, people don’t know what to do with you—even if they like you
2 | A next step that actually matches the topic
This is where so many people accidentally break the chain
If you’re speaking about one thing and then the next step you offer is about something that doesn’t match, it’s not going to mesh—and people are going to dip out quickly. That mismatch is one of the fastest ways to get the “immediate unsubscribe” experience, because it feels like whiplash from the audience’s perspective
3 | A simple follow-through system that doesn’t depend on constant posting
You need a follow-through system that doesn’t require you to remember everything, or constantly post, or keep a mental list of “oh, right, I should email that podcast host!” It can be automated, too, even if “automated” is as simple as something that reminds you to reach out or to post something
When you have these ingredients, your speaking stops being a one-time visibility moment and becomes part of a Visibility Ecosystem that can keep supporting your business long-term
The visibility mistakes that make podcast guesting feel like a waste of time
Once you understand that you’re not trying to increase online visibility just for the sake of being seen (you’re trying to create continuity and traction), a bunch of the “ugh why does this feel pointless?” moments start making sense
Because most of the time, podcast guesting doesn’t feel like a waste of time because the interview was bad 🤪 It feels like a waste of time because the visibility isn’t connected to anything, so there’s no way for it to keep working after you hit record
Here are a few of the most common ways I see that disconnect happen—so you can avoid them 😉
Mistake #1: Saying yes to topics you can teach… but they don’t go anywhere anymore
This is a sneaky one, because on paper, it looks like a good idea!
Someone invites you to speak, and you go, “Yeah, I know how to talk about that!” so you say yes… even though that topic isn’t actually connected to your business anymore
It’s like pulling a file out of the old cabinet because it’s cozy and familiar, and then realizing halfway through the presentation that you’ve gotta scramble to make up a new ending slide because you don’t even have a next step for people anymore 😬
And if you’ve pivoted—even a little bit—this matters more than you may think
Mistake #2: Pitching shows that make sense on paper, but you’re not a wholehearted yes
If you’re trying to increase online visibility in a way that actually sticks, “kind of aligned” isn’t the goal. The more you show up in places you’re just lukewarm about, the more your visibility starts to feel like a performance instead of a connection
You can usually tell when you’re doing this, because everything starts to feel weirdly exhausting and annoying 😫
You procrastinate the pitch, you overthink the topic, you drag your feet on prep, and then you’re annoyed at yourself for not being more “disciplined”… when the real issue is that your body is basically like, “Girl, we don’t even wanna be here” 🫠
Aligned rooms make it easier to show up with a relevant message, which makes it easier for the right people to recognize themselves in what you’re saying. And that’s the whole point of visibility that converts—you want the right people raising their hand, not everyone politely clapping and then forgetting about you!
Mistake #3: Treating leads like the only result that matters
Okay, yes—leads matter 👍 But if you treat subscriber count like the only metric that matters, you’re gonna miss some of the most important ways visibility builds into your business long-term
When I’m thinking about speaking opportunities, I like to keep four outcomes in mind—and leads are only one of them
Sales is another (obvs), but then there are two that aren’t as tangible… but they still matter a ton!
One is authority, because being seen as someone who knows what they’re talking about changes how people refer you, how they talk about you, and how quickly they trust you when they see your stuff later
The other is connections, which includes keeping that relationship warm with the host and building relationships with potential collaborators (like other speakers on a summit, or folks who reach out after an episode goes live)
Those things might not feel as tangible as a spike of new email subscribers, but they’re part of how you turn visibility into revenue over time
So if you’ve been telling yourself, “That didn’t work because I didn’t get a bunch of leads,” it might be worth zooming out and asking if it actually moved one of the other needles instead 😃
Mistake #4: The Spray and Pray approach
If your visibility marketing strategies mostly look like “throw more stuff out there and hope something catches,” this is probably going to land a little too close to home
Spray and Pray shows up in pitching when you’re sending your message to as many podcasts as possible and crossing your fingers that someone says yes. It also shows up in marketing visibility in general, though: posting a bunch, trying a bunch of platforms, doing a bunch of random appearances without a clear plan for how any of it connects
And when that happens, you end up with a visibility paper trail that looks busy, but doesn’t build anything real for your business
One strategic podcast interview can turn into a bunch of other marketing assets—pulling quotable lines out, turning the concepts you talked about into carousels, grabbing short snippets you can use as video by adding in some graphics—and letting that one appearance do more than one job
If you’re trying to increase online visibility for your business without burning out, creating a Visibility Ecosystem is way better than just doing a bunch of one-off speaking appearances or constantly creating content 🐹
Mistake #5: Trying to impress the host instead of helping the right people self-select
I get it: most of us want to be liked, and we definitely don’t want to feel awkward on someone else’s platform, so it’s easy to slip into “I’m-gonna-make-everyone-like-me” mode
But your goal isn’t to convince every single person that you’re amazing (even though I’m sure you are 😉). Your goal is to help the right people see themselves in what you’re talking about—and know what to do next if they want more of it
I’m sure you’ve heard this a millions times, but when you try to speak to everyone, you usually end up reaching no one. That’s when you get the immediate unsubscribe thing, or the “this was nice but I have no idea what she actually does” problem, which is just a different version of visibility without a path forward
If you feel like you’re constantly trying to earn approval in your visibility marketing, it might be a sign you’re trying to be impressive instead of clear. I’m here to tell ya, clarity is the thing that converts visibility into clients—not a bunch of fancy words that make you sound like you went to Harvard
Mistake #6: Blaming your offer when the path to the next step is the real issue
Folks do the interview, do the summit, show up in the membership, and then the results don’t show up… so they assume the offer is the problem. (Or the freebie or whatever else)
It makes sense, but a lot of the time, the offer isn’t broken. They just didn’t line the path up for the listeners well enough
If you’re sending people from a speaking topic to a next step that doesn’t match, or you’re getting visibility in places where the people you actually serve aren’t showing up, or you don’t have a follow-through system… it’s like putting a perfectly good destination into Google Maps and then ignoring every single turn it gives you 📍
You don’t need a brand new offer every time visibility feels weird… you need continuity. And yeah, I know, that answer is a little boring, but it’s also super fixable, which is good news! 🙌
Fewer but better: how to make each speaking opportunity actually matter
If you want visibility that converts (and doesn’t leave you resentfully doom scrolling your own analytics), the goal isn’t “more”
It’s better
So instead of asking, “How do I get booked more?” it helps to shift the question to something like: how do I make each opportunity actually matter?
A few filters that can help:
1 | Does this room contain the people I actually serve?
Whether the room is a podcast, a summit, or a guest session inside someone’s program, the question is the same: are the right people already there, or are you hoping the wrong people will magically become the right people once you show up?
2 | Does the topic naturally point to a paid offer, without you having to force it?
A profitable speaking topic is NOT a sales pitch; it creates a conversation that naturally leads somewhere that gets you sales
If you have to duct-tape the “and by the way here’s what I sell” moment onto the end, that’s usually a sign the topic and the next step aren’t aligned
3 | Is there a clear next step that matches what you just taught?
We’re not looking for a random freebie you happen to have lying around. We’re not throwing out a “well technically this is also helpful”
We want a next step that feels like the obvious continuation of the conversation you just had with the host or in your presentation
4 | Can you actually follow through in a way that fits your capacity?
If your plan requires you to remember to email the host, post 12 times a day, create three reels, write a newsletter, and DM every new follower… we both know what’s going to happen after the adrenaline wears off 🫠
This is where a simple follow-through system changes everything, even if “system” just means you’ve built yourself a repeatable workflow you can actually keep up with
If you want to increase online visibility, your job is to build continuity
Visibility isn’t supposed to be a series of one-time moments where you cross your fingers and hope this is the one that finally works 🤞
It’s supposed to stack. It’s supposed to build trust over time. To create repeated touch points, and make it easier—not harder—for the right people to find you, understand what you do, and take the next step when they’re ready
That’s why I’m so obsessed with the idea of a Visibility Ecosystem, instead of visibility as a hustle strategy
A Visibility Ecosystem is what makes your speaking opportunities keep working after you hit record… and it’s what keeps you from having to constantly reinvent the wheel every time you want to increase online visibility again
Because when you have a clear message, an aligned room, a next step that matches the topic, and a simple follow-through system, you don’t need to be everywhere
You just need to be strategic about where you show up, and consistent about what happens after you show up 🙌
And if you’ve tried podcast guesting or summits or guest expert sessions before and felt like it didn’t do much, this is the part that usually explains why
It wasn’t that visibility “doesn’t work”
It’s that visibility without a path forward can’t do its job
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